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Planning a wedding is one of the most exciting times in a couple’s life, but it can also feel overwhelming—especially when it comes to budgeting. With so many opinions, trends, and surveys circulating online, it’s easy to feel pressured into spending more than you intended.
At Lucan Spa Hotel, we believe your wedding should reflect your love story—not a price tag. Here’s a practical, realistic guide to setting your wedding budget in Ireland, without the stress.
💡 Don’t Get Burdened by Trends and Fads
Wedding trends change quickly. What’s “must-have” today may feel dated in a year or two—and most couples plan their wedding 12–24 months in advance. Instead of chasing trends, focus on what you love. Whether that’s a traditional ballroom reception, a relaxed celebration with family and friends, or a modern, minimalist style, your day should feel authentic.
Remember: the most memorable weddings are not the trendiest ones—they’re the most personal.
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📊 Ignore the “Average Irish Wedding Cost” Pressure
You’ve probably seen surveys claiming the “average Irish wedding costs €30,000, €40,000 or more.” These figures are often skewed toward certain demographics and weddings—and they don’t represent most couples.
You can absolutely have a beautiful, unforgettable wedding without overspending. Many couples create stunning celebrations at a fraction of these so-called averages by prioritising what matters most to them. Take these surveys with a pinch of salt.
💶 Where Will Your Budget Come From? Be Realistic
Before setting your budget, consider where the funds will realistically come from. Common sources include:
• Personal savings.
• Contributions from parents or family.
• Borrowing from a credit union or bank.
• A combination of the above.
It’s important to be honest and realistic at this stage. Borrowing can be a helpful option, but it should never cause long-term financial stress. A wedding is one day—your financial wellbeing lasts a lifetime. If borrowing, make sure to have the right procedures in place (e.g. if you plan to borrow from a credit union, make sure to have a sound credit rating and be part of a credit union institution).
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✅ Identify Your “Must-Haves” and Prioritise Them
Every couple has priorities. Some care most about food and drink, others about entertainment or photography.
Make a list of your non-negotiables, for example:
• A live band or DJ.
• High-quality food and drink.
• Photography and videography.
• A content creator for social media memories.
• A stunning dress or suit.
Allocate more of your budget to these key areas and consider saving on less important elements. Spending wisely on what matters most will make your day all that you want it to be.
🏨 Consider All-Inclusive Wedding Packages
All-inclusive packages can be one of the best ways to stretch your budget without compromising quality. At Lucan Spa Hotel, our Sterling Wedding Package includes many of the essential elements couples need—helping you control costs while still enjoying a premium wedding experience. Bundled packages often provide better value than booking everything separately and give you peace of mind during planning.
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📋 Build a Contingency Fund
No matter how carefully you plan, unexpected costs can arise—last-minute guest additions, décor upgrades or extended hours. Setting aside 5–10% of your budget as a contingency fund can help avoid stress and keep everything on track. Be clear with all your suppliers to avoid any issues or hidden costs.
💬 Talk Openly as a Couple
Money can be a sensitive topic, but open communication is key. Discuss priorities, expectations, and limits early on. Agreeing on a realistic budget together will make the planning process smoother and more enjoyable.
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💐 Your Dream Wedding, Your Way
At the end of the day, your wedding should be a celebration of your relationship—not a financial burden. With thoughtful planning, honest budgeting, and a clear idea of what matters most, you can create a beautiful day that feels luxurious, personal, and stress-free.
At Lucan Spa Hotel, our experienced wedding team is always happy to guide couples through planning, budgeting, and choosing the right package to suit their vision and finances. Contact our wedding team today to learn more about our packages and how we can help you plan the perfect celebration—within your budget.